Reddit is a killer resource for dating advice.

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Since the many great dating subreddits have been around, however, tons of ground has been covered. And covered. And covered again.

That said, we challenged ourselves to narrow down a super-short list of all-time best Reddit dating advice.

Online dating has done nothing but crush my self esteem and leave me frustrated. It’s very crushing to spend 7 straight months being ignored, or if a girl finally would reply it would always be extremely generic boring replies where you can tell she was unenthused. I was the one that would always have to push the questions/conversation. Why online dating is good. It’s interesting how, with certain patterns, you can make a great online dating profile.I spoke with Whitney Perry, the founder of the Single Online Dating Guide, who shared a great analogy.If you are wearing a dress that has zippers up the side, you can show what the dress looks like in a different way to different people by zipping it up a bit.

Here’s our top 3 picks.

#3) Top Reddit Dating Advice: Mixed Signals

zazzlekdazzle:

Most of the time “mixed signals” means “no.” Or, I don’t know what I want and I am a mixed up person, in a mixed up part of my life, or a flake. All of the above indicate that it’s often best to move on.

If there are “mixed” signals, the discouraging ones are the true ones, the encouraging ones are you just making too much of their common courtesy.

Also sometimes people want to string others along until something better comes around, or they genuinely don’t know what they want. Mostly, though, I think people are just cowards who don’t want to feel like the “bad guy” and maybe kinda hope the other person does the breaking up for them.

#2) Top Reddit Dating Advice: Shoot for Good Enough, Not Perfect

ALLST6R:

You’re both going to be nervous and you’re both going to say stupid things on the first date. Humour those things and don’t let them control the date. First dates have a different grading scale.

#1) Top Reddit Dating Advice: Rejection Doesn’t Mean Something Is Wrong With You

ThrushKnock:

Be okay with rejection. One person’s rejection is not everyone’s opinion of you.

And the other person may be aware of some reason why you wouldn’t work as a couple. Incompatibility is a good reason to turn someone down and I think too many people dismiss it as an excuse.

_Gorge_ 41:

I can’t tell you how many perfectly beautiful women I just couldn’t get into. Realizing this helps me avoid taking it personally when I get rejected. Sometimes it’s just not there and no explanation is necessary.

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The beauty of Tinder Reddit (r/tinder) is tons of people can anonymously share their online dating woes and triumphs.

The downside is that there’s so much well-meaning advice on r/Tinder, it’s hard to know what are actual ProLifeTips and what’s “nice guy” bs.

How does a casual r/Tinder lurker parse all these opinions and actually glean some useful info?

We’ve put together some of the best dating advice on Tinder Reddit to guide you on your quest for Tinder success.

Tinder Reddit Tip #1: “Put your damn shirt back on.”

Truth bomb.

Just because you want to immediately see a woman topless doesn’t mean she feels the same way.

In fact, even if you’ve got a fine bod, most women will tend to think you’re compensating for something else (brains, usually) if you’re half naked in your dating pics.

Put even more aptly by u/appogiatura, “Shirtless bathroom selfies are tacky.”

Still not convinced? Check out #6 of this list.

Tinder Reddit Tip #2: “Literacy is super hot.”

“Do not initially contact me with: ‘hey,’ ‘what’s up,’ or ‘how r u.’ I don’t care if you’re the hottest, smartest, most successful man, I will not reply to a message that took the least amount of humanly effort possible.” –u/waverunnr

The bar is not high.

Even the smallest amount of creativity and effort can make a huge difference in getting responses to your Tinder openers.

Still stumped? Here are some of the best cures for Tinder writer’s block.

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Tinder Reddit Tip #3: “Don’t listen to that OKCupid article, smile more.”

PREACH. 🙌

We couldn’t agree more. In fact, we did a study that showed OKCupid’s premise resulted in some of the cringiest & grumpiest looking selfies attempting to replicate smoldering straight-faced models.

The easiest way for average guys to look max attractive and appealing to women is simply flashing your pearly whites.

Tinder Reddit Tip #4: “Your opening photo has to be a good one.”

Your photos (especially the first one) make a huge difference in the way matches “hear” your messages.

In fact, you could say the same thing to the same person — just with a different main profile pic — and get a completely different reaction.

To choose your best Tinder pics, test yours on Photofeeler to see how they’re coming across to women or men in your age range.

It’s so eye-opening to learn how you’re perceived from your pics. Choosing Tinder pics this way has been known to increase match rates (and match quality) by a ton.

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Reddit Tinder sources: u/waverunnr and u/appogiatura.